How #Conflict Leads You To Want To Be Invisible
Are you feeling conflict with being visible? I mean visibility on social media, visibility to your clients, in your relationships, and just in the world in general?
Is it because you are caught up in wanting to be seen as PERFECT or nice and you are afraid that someone will see you in the wrong light?
We become #invisible to feel SAFE. This happens on social media, at work, and with our personal selves. It is normal for us to not want to feel like a target or to not speak out in fear of disagreement.
So how do we create safety amongst conflict?
It’s easy to get on Facebook and compare ourselves to other people.
We see other people’s outside, and start to compare it with our inside.
It can make us feel pretty bad about ourselves.
That’s what I’m talking about in this video: perfectionism.
For me, that’s the epicenter of my perfectionism: I start comparing myself with other people, and I think I’m not good enough.
When I do that, I spiral into thinking that I should look better, that I should feel better, that I should be different than I am.
Have you been there?
However your perfectionism manifests in you, I guarantee it’s holding you back from being your highest self.
In this video, I share what perfectionism really means and give you the tools you need to change it.